“And you tried to change, didn’t you? Closed your mouth more. Tried to be softer, prettier, less volatile, less awake… You can’t make homes out of human beings. Someone should have already told you that. And if he wants to leave, then let him leave. You are terrifying, and strange, and beautiful. Something not everyone knows how to love.”—Warsan Shire, For Women Who Are Difficult To Love
Hello. For students in the pharmacy program, if they are unable to meet the GPA requirement, are they dropped or do they have to take one more year to boost it up? Basically, does a 3+3 change to a 4+3?
If you don’t meet the GPA requirement, you don’t get dropped from the program. You just add on another semester or year, however long it takes until you raise your GPA, and apply next year. So yeah, basically a 3+3 changes to a 4+3, but you wouldn’t actually have to stay that whole year. You could literally just take one math/sci booster if that’s all you needed and take the rest of the year off until the application season. But you are only allowed to extend until 5+3. If you don’t meet the GPA requirements in your 5th year, then you pretty much get dropped from the program.
I stopped watching How I Met Your Mother a few years ago and am considering catching up now that it’s over but I doubt the finale is going to reveal that Ted meets the mother and has his kids but then dies in a tragic accident and all along the whole series has been about the kids being told this whole story by their step-father, Danny Tanner, leading into the mashup/spin-off Full House I Met Your Mother so there might not be any point.
“My mother told me, Remember, your body is a temple,
and I am still trying to work out what that means.
Is a temple really a place where people go to throw stones;
am I supposed to see so much of my own blood on the altar?
If I am a wonder, I guess that explains all the men who came
to rip everything good out of me, until I had only the halls
and my loneliness. No one sings hymns here anymore, and
I wonder: If my body is really a temple, and I am its god,
is this how I am supposed to believe in me?”—your body is a temple, wesley king
Please read this. I keep seeing this on my and over again. And I want to make this clear, HIV-PEP is not like a morning after pill. It is a month long medication regimen. And it is not 100% effective.
It is not supposed to be a substitute for other methods of HIV prevention. Condoms should not be disregarded because people think this is some new “morning active pill for HIV.” Do not have unprotected sex just because you think you can get some magical pill afterwards that will prevent HIV transmission.
Yes, PEP is obviously a good method of treatment if you’re a healthcare worker who’s been accidentally exposed. It’s also a completely valid option if you’ve somehow had accidental needle sticks, been sexually assaulted, and or had unprotected sex where you could have been exposed to HIV. Any risk exposure is a valid reason to go to an emergency room and ask about PEP. I am not trying to disregard its use or its importance. But I want to make it clear to people that this is not a substitute for other forms of HIV prevention. It is not the same as a morning active pill. It is it’s own medication regiment with side effects and monetary costs.
And it is expensive. It’s not something a lot of people can pay for very easily out of pocket. And unless you’re a healthcare worker who was exposed at work, your insurance may not cover something like this. Condoms are a much less expensive form of HIV prevention than anti-retroviral medications. Please, do not think you can have unprotected sex or actively work to reduce your risk exposure because of PEP.
While I want people to know that this kind of treatment exists and that they have healthcare options should they be exposed to HIV, I also want people to know that it is not as simple as a morning after pill. There is so much more to it than that. I understand that the above tumblr user wants people to know about PEP, but comparing it to a morning after pill is oversimplifying it and could endanger the health of people who think they can have unprotected sex because PEP exists.
“One day you fall for this boy. And he touches you with his fingers. And he burns holes in your skin with his mouth. And it hurts when you look at him. And it hurts when you don’t. And it feels like someone’s cut you open with a jagged piece of glass.”—The Tracey Fragments
“You have to learn
how to be gentle with yourself.
That you are more than
a tornado of genetics and mistakes.
How to work hard and take care of yourself.
That love takes pieces
of you with it; accept that you may
receive nothing in return.
People are horrible and sad and rotten,
but you cannot let it harden you.
She taught you to hate yourself,
but you must teach her how to love.
That your parents are not perfect.
That you are not perfect.
That it will all be okay.”—Michelle K., Things I’ve Learned In 2013.
I flinch when most people touch me
and I don’t know why.
There are days where I dream of someone coming
into my life and holding my hand with so much intention,
with so much of forever in their fingertips -
that my fear of everything seems to slip away.
there are the days where I
cannot imagine a single finger grazing my cheek
without me being terrified
of everything around me,
of the way hands can break bones
and drown love,
of the way endings are inevitable.
I flinch when most people touch me
and I don’t know why.
I am frightened by the idea of being alone
and the idea of being with someone
that I don’t know how to balance love or life
and everything that intersects.
I flinch when most people touch me and I don’t know why,
all I know is that
I need your fingers running through my hair
the way I need to forget what it means to be left,
I just finished my last genetics practical and I didn’t finish. I knew how to do everything and still didn’t have enough time. Fuck. I was doing so well in genetics. I pretty much had an A in the class, until these last two exams. I ran out of time of the last lecture midterm and I ran out of time again today. I am not willing to get a B in this fucking class just because I fuck up when the tests are purposefully made longer because the averages are too high. Time to study my ass off even more for the final on Monday.
“I am not a graceful person. I am not a Sunday morning or a Friday sunset. I am a Tuesday 2am, I am gunshots muffled by a few city blocks, I am a broken window during February. My bones crack on a nightly basis. I fall from elegance with a dull thud, and I apologize for my awkward sadness. I sometimes believe that I don’t belong around people, that I belong to all the leap days that didn’t happen. The way light and darkness mix under my skin has become a storm. You don’t see the lightning, but you hear the echoes.”—Anna Peters
1. Stop faking your fucking orgasms. Society already tells young men that they run the fucking universe - if they can’t turn your cunt into a shooting star then for god’s sake, let them know about it.
2. Once you’ve stopped faking your fucking orgasms, use this newfound honesty throughout the rest of your life - stop ordering coffee you don’t actually like; stop sitting at a desk and allowing people to treat you like shit in the hopes that a meek attitude will earn you a promotion (it won’t); stop telling people they can finish your food when you’re not actually done yet. These may seem petty, but they add up, just like every orgasm you didn’t actually get to have.
3. If you wanna dance all night, dance all fucking night. Dance all night even if you have work in the morning. The worst that will happen is you’ll drink RedBull all day and look like a zombie - pass it off as a head cold to the real zombies you work with and flick through the embarrassing photos you’re being tagged in as you pretend to take a shit for some peace and quiet. I promise, you’ll remember dancing all night in ten years, not the suspicious way your boss looked at you that morning.
4. If your ass looks big in that, that’s a good thing.
5. You will never be as young as you are this second. Embrace it.
6. Embrace the fact that you’re going to get older. Ask your boyfriend if he will still love you when you’re seventy and your tits are down to your knees. Look forward to this time - seventy year old women are allowed to do pretty much whatever they want, and no-one can stop them. You can carry candy in your bag and not share it with a single soul. You can stay home all day and cross-stitch expletives onto handkerchiefs for your grandchildren and slip them under the table out of sight of the people you raised. You can drink whisky at 10am. Every phase of your life is going to be amazing for different reasons. Embrace that.
7. A lot of people will pretend to love Bukowski. Don’t pretend to love Bukowski if you don’t love Bukowski. It’s overplayed and no-one will mind if you actually like Virginia Andrews instead - the people who do mind are boring.
Do you like the university of the pacific? If you go to the university of the pacific as pre-pharm for undergrad, do you have to take the PCAT?
I actually do like going to University of the Pacific. There are both pros and cons to coming here and there were times that I used to regret my choice, but overall, I’m happy with how things are. Stockton isn’t the greatest city. There’s not that much to do here sometimes, but things are more fun if you have a good group of friends. I met some really great people in my dorms and in organizations on campus. I joined Rho Pi Phi, which is a professional pharmacy fraternity, and have met some of the most amazing people. And some of my best friends are people that I met in my classes. That’s something that I really like about it here. It’s really easy to meet new people and actually stay friends with them. It’s a pretty small campus, so if you meet someone new, they don’t just disappear into a sea of unrecognizable faces. It’s also nice because everyone in the program has the same requirements, so you’ll usually have friends or know people in the classes that you’re taking, so you’ll never really be struggling through the classes by yourself. There’s always someone to ask if you need help.
Which brings me to something else that I like about it here. The professors are always really available to help you since the class sizes are usually pretty small compared to other universities. I personally love almost all of the professors in the biology department. They are really approachable and it’s always really easy to meet with them during office hours for help. The classes you’re going to be taking here are hard. I’m not going to lie about that. But they are going to be hard at any university you choose to go to. The subject matter in ochem, microbio, or anatomy is pretty extensive no matter where you go and it takes studying and a lot of work to do well in these classes. Sometimes, people have a natural inclination to these subjects and they don’t have to try as hard to do well. I’m not sure if you’re one of those people, but I wasn’t. And ochem kicked my butt. I’m not sure I would have passed if I wasn’t able visit my professors on what was almost a daily basis to ask questions. I also went to tutoring on campus to get help and had really smart friends to study with for ochem. The bio classes were better for me since I’m a bio major in the pre-pharm program and I actually enjoyed studying for those classes compared to chem. It’s hard, but very doable. You just have to be willing to put in the effort to study the material.
And talking to the professors has it’s other benefits. It opens up a lot of opportunities for research. I currently have a position held for me to do research with a genetics professor next semester. I know people who started research early on in their undergrad years and were published before they graduated. There are so many opportunities to work with different professors in the science departments here, and you could also research with professors in the pharmacy school while you’re still in undergrad. A good friend of mine spent the summer after his junior year in Stockton researching at the pharmacy school. And one of my fraternity brothers is planning on researching at the pharmacy school next semester while she finishes out her last semester of undergrad.
As an undergrad in the pre-pharmacy program, you do not have to take the PCAT. It’s not required of you if you’re applying to the Thomas J. Long School of Pharmacy. But if you want to apply to other pharmacy schools, then you will probably have to take it. I’ve met transfers who go to the pharmacy school here, but went to undergrad somewhere else and it just opened my eyes to how lucky I am to be in this program. It’s a lot more competitive if you’re not in the program. In the pre-pharm program, the bare minimum you have to do is maintain your GPA, pass the writing sample, and pass the interview. Sometimes pre-pharms don’t make it to pharmacy school because they didn’t meet the GPA requirements or they didn’t pass their interviews, but our process is still much less competitive than the transfers who have to do a lot more to stand out against each other in their applications. If you are dead set on going to the Thomas J. Long School of Pharmacy, then this program is great. There are a lot of advantages. But if you’re not sure, I encourage you to explore your options. The application process may be easier for us, but the program itself isn’t easy. The classes are still hard. Don’t think that once you’re in the pre-pharm program, you’re guaranteed to go to pharmacy school. You still have to meet the requirements and sometimes that’s difficult to do in 2 years (if you’re in the 2+3 program).
Sorry I wrote so much. The general gist of it all is that I love it here. I met the best people and I think my professors are great. As much as I love it though, the classes still kick my ass and it is hard work. But it’s all worth for me because I know that I want to go pharmacy school here. If there’s anything else you want to know about campus life here or the program itself, feel free to ask me any other questions you might have.